Adding LIFE to your years and years to your life!
Sometimes we don't feel loved by others. Sometimes we don't feel appreciated.
Sometimes we have to remember, God loves us and he appreciates us even if we are not feeling that from others.
Sometimes others are silent not because they do not care but because they do not know what to say. it is tough to be vulnerable. However when you become vulnerable, you develope intimacy which people naturally crave and need in their lives. It is how we build relationships. As more and more trust is built, we reveal more and more of our self to the person we are trusting.
It is not easy to put ourselves out there, were we might get hurt. However, as the saying goes, love hurts. However, really when you analyze it, love does not hurt, love heals. But it is when we have unmet expectations that we get hurt. So therefore if we love with no expectations, we will not get hurt. This is easier said than done though. We all have our moments of weakness, we are human beings afterall. And when we care, sometimes with that caring is pain, when we lose someone, or are feeling a loss of any type. The truely healthy approach to life is the Catch and release theory. Where we love people, they capture our hearts, but we are able to let them go and still love them if the time comes for them to leave our lives. I don't think we ever get over loving someone but I don't think we have to. We can learn to let them go and still love them even if the seperation of our lives feels painful.
Time to get to work, to much thinking going on here. Time to be mindless and task oriented. Hope you are having a wonderful day.
It is raining here today. I love rain! Great day to stay inside and get some work done in my office.
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