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When browsing online dating profiles on okcupid and other sites, I think of how hard it is to really find a match in this world.....most people are looking for someone thats attractice and stable etc....and it tends to be fairly basic...but Im looking for much more, but Im a pretty diverse person. Im not a drinker and dont go to bars to *hang out* but I like to go dancing (and there arent many non-bar options for that on a regular basis) and I enjoy going to and performing in drag/performance art shows that are also in bars. I really resonate with people that arent into bars, but I still spend SOME time in them. Im also heavily involved with gay/queer/trans community....and alot of the ppl I resonate with have been burned by the community and so they try to disavow it..because of all the drama (like gay male vanity and superficiality/drunks/drugs etc..) but I love my community, even though I dislike those things and I dont associate being queer with all those things on the whole. Im also vegan, but Im now back into mostly (if not all ) raw foods...and theres a VERY small minority of queer (male) folks in that community...and all the ones Ive met are very taken already, or in polyamorous relationships with a primary partner or several partners, and that wouldnt quite work for me either, altho a regular totally monogamous relationship may not work either, as I may want to explore different things/kinks that my partner may not be interested in. Cant I just have my low fat raw vegan cake and eat it too??? lol